isnt it sad when you feel like everyone is in relationships except for you?

I hate feeling like everyone is dating except for me. what also ruins it is when I say I wish I was in a relationship someone goes its not all its craked up to be and its a lot of hard work. i dont know if they are trying to to talk me out of trying to get a boyfriend but im sure they would rather pick a good relationship over no relationship. I wish there was more dating events around me because i have not had any success online dating and i dont like bars, its not a good place to find long term relationships.

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I agree, the hard part i find is that any friends i make like at work etc want to spend their spare time with the most important person in their life, which is their partner or at most might spend a few minutes chatting over lunch etc. They are also quick to tell me that being single is great, yet none of them are. I have also met a couple of single friends, but that only lasted until they got into a relationship now i never hear from them. Then there's intimacy. You don't get that with anyone if you're single. So when people say they enjoy being single, i wonder about how not spending any quality time with anyone or having any intimacy or regular physical contact with the same person is enjoyable? Like you said, I think a good relationship is better than no relationship.