isnt it sad when you feel like everyone is in relationships except for you?

I hate feeling like everyone is dating except for me. what also ruins it is when I say I wish I was in a relationship someone goes its not all its craked up to be and its a lot of hard work. i dont know if they are trying to to talk me out of trying to get a boyfriend but im sure they would rather pick a good relationship over no relationship. I wish there was more dating events around me because i have not had any success online dating and i dont like bars, its not a good place to find long term relationships.