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Maybe I’m too much.... maybe i ask for and expect too much from him... he said it’s like having a second job having to come home and have sex...

Not in those words but basically yes

“I worked hard all day and now I have to work hard at home too”


Ummm what?

That really hurt my feelings. I know he was joking because he was saying I’m insatiable but I told him if he didn’t think he could keep up, doesn’t want to or isn’t attracted to me anymore that he should tell me because I’m done wondering what is wrong with me 😒
Killroy59 · 61-69, M
It’s a shame but some men are just like that , they feel they should just relax after work and not gratify and enjoy the best relaxer of them all , pity
silkandlace · 41-45, M
@Killroy59 i like to relax after work too, but agreed,
"the best relaxer of them all"
I've often wondered why "opposites attract".

Rest assured you are not alone in your frustrations with the spouse's libido (or lack thereof) ......
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
I’m sorry 😞@Threepio
silkandlace · 41-45, M
Uhhhhhh, what's wrong with him? Unless you expect a Stallion after a long days' work, which i'm assuming maybe, but probably not?
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
@silkandlace a stallion twice a week at least a single
Orgasm daily I’m willing for us to cum together too
But whatever
silkandlace · 41-45, M
@KaysHealingPath right, that's reasonable i think
Nothing is wrong with you
To me years to realize that myself
happymax · 51-55, M
I'm speechless... ☹️ I can't believe he'd think of that as work! 😳
Nothing’s wrong with you. 🖤😘
Maybe he's telling you he's tired. Plain and simple.
@KaysHealingPath well if it's constant, maybe sit down and talk, seems like you can do that. It's hard to know til you talk more about it.
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
@HannahSky we’ve talked
We reach the same conclusion things are well a few days and then it’s back to the same issue
@KaysHealingPath sounds like it's not a good thing for you, sorry, hope it changes for you
blindbob · 36-40
maybe he's got a side-piece wearing him out before he gets home.
KaysHealingPath · 31-35, F
@blindbob doubtful
I know the signs
And he’s a horrible liar
Plus I’ve told him I’m willing to have an open relationship if he comes to me first before screwing anyone

 
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