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why do girls hate hopeless romantic guys

Azrael ·
I personally don't,
it's just a lot of those "hopeless romantic guys" turn out to be NiceGuys™ or just come off as a little too clingy or needy, which I don't have the emotional strength to handle.

What I'm saying is, I'm fine with my s/o being hopelessly romantic with me because I'm hopeless romantic too, but if anyone else does it, it just becomes annoying since I have no interest in them.
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@Azrael I know im an asshole and selfish. i will never call myself a nice guy because i've hurt people before. I understand we have different things in our lifes and im a guy who wouldnt want to change the person you are

the only thing i ask is to see your smile every now and then and go on a cheesy date
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Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M
Maybe because in most cases deep emotional connection takes time. Romance may be a little sickly to someone early on. Everyone's different though I guess
SW-User
Only the desperate ones
SW-User
@indyjoe The needy, suffocating type
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@SW-User im not that
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firefall · 61-69, M
because they think their own emotion gives them a claim to the girl?
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@firefall nope you're wrong. No one owes me anything just I'm supportive and caring and i don't understand what i do wrong
firefall · 61-69, M
@JoshuaCo19 well, not listening, for a start, clearly
I'm fairly sure they don't hate them
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2fast4love · M
In my experience they become this way over girls who aren't interested and then they read too much into the simplest things, and get hurt when they are rejected. I prefer a man who will just tell me whats up and none of this romance bull shit.
SW-User
That's not true.

But maybe it is in the way it is presented that might be offputting?
justanothername · 51-55, M
Girls are picky and have unrealistic expectations
Belladonna · 41-45, F
Because they're pussies. Pusillanimous, I mean. And they're clingy. And creepy.
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@Belladonna i don't think im special or anything. it's just confusing when a girls says you didnt really want me because you didnt try . so you're telling me not to try? be cold and distant and closed off?
Belladonna · 41-45, F
@JoshuaCo19 I think you're talking to different girls than I. Hopeless romantic can be a good thing, but it can also be extreme in a bad way. I love guys who are open with their feelings, but not ones who stalk me and tell me they're going to kill themselves if I'm not with them.
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@Belladonna i love falling love.. but i wouldn't go as far as that. i wouldnt hurt myself over a girl who doesnt feel the same. i write poetry, i watch romcoms but im still a man. i wouldnt let anyone hurt my girl but i still have a soft side she'll only see..
sure I'm cheesy but im only cheesy to one girl.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Like feeding a stray cat.

Probably because they are difficult to shoo away once you encourage them.
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@Heartlander im a stray cat? good to know thanks
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@JoshuaCo19

Lots of people love stray cats. Others are just reluctant create a bond with them.
SW-User
They are not dominate
JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@SW-User just because im cheesy and romantic doesn't mean I can't be dominating.
SW-User
Oh I agree . Women love romantic men@JoshuaCo19
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JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M
@AgapeLove i am a good man but i still believe in love. shoot me if im wrong
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Not all girls do.

 
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