Is it offensive to tell your girlfriend that she looks better when she's dressed up and has put...

GlitterBug · 22-25, F Best Comment

I mean. It would hurt my feelings honestly. It’s inconsiderate. Most girls already know that’s true, it’s not necessary to say it.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

that would hurt my feelings if my boyfriend ever told me that.. despite me thinking that myself, but I want him to think I am just as attractive not dressed up and with out make up on. I don't wanna feel like I have to get dressed up and put on make up whenever I am around him

SW-User

Offensive? I am not sure.
But he is an immature twat to say something of this nature to a girl, especially one he is supposed to love.

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SapphicHeart · F

I don't know if it's offending but I'd say it's rather blunt without giving her feelings any thoughts.

PoetryNEmotion · F

Most gfs wouldn't like how that sounds.

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

some people might find it offensive if it was said to them

Numberz · F

Yes because apparently she looks bad naturally

bijouxbroussard · F

It’s controlling and manipulative. Most people look better when they’re dressed up but people deserve to be accepted for who they are when they’re not, too.

BeefySenpie · M

This goes on the list of dumb things to say

TexChik · F

It might hurt some feelings

GeniUs · 56-60, M

If I said that to my partner she'd just say, 'so do you.' There you go don't get upset meet it with a bit of comedy, these are the people it's fun to be with, rather than having to walk on eggshells.

midnightsun · 26-30, M

No.

SteelHands · 61-69, M

Probably. Seems there's no end to the number of things on the list that some pretend is somehow offending someone.

Tinkerxbell · 41-45, F

Yes it is offensive because beauty is much more than skin deep. He should think that you're amazing just the way you are. :)

hlpflwthat · M

I guess we got to consider the source. Cuz that is about the dumbest thing a guy could say to his girlfriend.

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Yes it is

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Is it offensive to tell your girlfriend that she looks better when she's dressed up and has put on some make up?