Why Would You Ever want your spouse to sleep with someone else? Then they compare that person to you or end up wanting them and not you.
Inviting trouble much.
26-30, F
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voodoo1970 · 51-55, M
Everyone's relationship dynamic is different.
Personally I'd only be comfortable with my spouse (if I had one) being with someone else if I was there roo and we were having a mutually agreed and organised group activity, with full understanding and ground rules
Personally I'd only be comfortable with my spouse (if I had one) being with someone else if I was there roo and we were having a mutually agreed and organised group activity, with full understanding and ground rules
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@voodoo1970 Well now that's interesting. Why ground rules and group activity if them sleeping with someone else is okay. Now your trying to control a situation like your nervous of losing them. (Not being rude)
voodoo1970 · 51-55, M
Because group sex can be fun, but we are all human.
It is possible for even otherwise well adjusted people to feel jealousy, or to mistake the rush of hormones during sex for love or sonething deeper.
Ground rules and understanding (the rules go both ways, btw, not just one party dictating to the other) go a long way towards having an enjoyable experience whilst maintaining the trust needed in a relationship.
It is possible for even otherwise well adjusted people to feel jealousy, or to mistake the rush of hormones during sex for love or sonething deeper.
Ground rules and understanding (the rules go both ways, btw, not just one party dictating to the other) go a long way towards having an enjoyable experience whilst maintaining the trust needed in a relationship.