I was asked to be a unicorn but is this too much responsibility?

The married couple has 3 kids and they want to pay me to babysit. They want to take care of all the bills and take care of me and they want me to join. I only have 1 kid but I would have to be in charge of all the raising of kids while they work and they want to have sex with me. I also don’t like eating pussy that much I’m a pillow princess and I’m not a super freak. Unless I take about 3 shots. We have been friends for a while and she keeps asking us to come live with them. It feels like I would be stuck in the house all the time babysitting and then they want to have sex with me. Also they are older than me and not that attractive unless I took about 4 shots and I don’t want to become alcohol dependent. I’m half way in because I really don’t have anywhere to go or any family and they have been so kind to me. But I would have to get used to hooking up with them. It feel like some slave shit.

Effloresce · 26-30, F

Sounds like you already don’t really want to do it, so listen to what your mind is telling you

walabby · 61-69, M

You've answered your own question. Tell 'em thanks but no thanks!

rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

You did not say how old their kids are. If they are in school all day it seems like a sweet deal.

On the sex issue of that is the primary reason and you can't deal with it I would say none of it is worth it

Sounds like a tough call either way.

Pherick · 41-45, M

It sounds like some slave shit. Sounds like some sex slave living in the basement not allowed to see daylight shit.

Angelkiss48 · 26-30, F

Exactly I would get money and free place to stay but I don’t really want to have sex with them unless I was really ready also I wouldn’t have a way to really do anything @Pherick

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Angelkiss48 Plus all it takes is some of their relationship issues to get bad and they turn on you. You get thrown out, without a place to live or go.

Sounds like a great "fantasy", but the reality will not work out.

Not even counting the fact you don't want to have sex with these people. Almost 100% guarantee, the husband in this relationship is going to start trying to have you alone without his wife knowing.

SW-User

Never do anything you feel doubts about, and it sounds like because you would feel trapped like a slave, it's not an ideal situation for you.

HellfireandCandy · 22-25, F

No way, you don't want to owe someone that much (pay and housing) when they expect sex that's going to,turn bad

Rambler · M

With this many concerns, doesn’t sound like a good idea for you

Montanaman · M

Just say no 🤔👍

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

That stuff is perfectly fine for some people. Sounds like it is not meant for you. There is no shame in accepting or declining their offer. You need to seek your happiness.

I think your first step is to be honest with them about your thoughts, feelings, and desires.