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bosbovis1 · 36-40, M
Depends on the person, but number of people I have contact with dramatically declined in late 20s
So I guess less ppl to choose from if that's the case :p
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@bosbovis1 Makes sense! Declined how?
bosbovis1 · 36-40, M
@YourBuddyRandall
All childhood friends and later friends from various education stages went separate ways and life just don't give enough time to meet amount of people like before.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
No, I think that if anything, many people start to really grow up and figure out what they want in their late 20's and 30's, which tends to make them better marriage material, or at least better relationship material. At least that's how I see it.

I heard the same thing from some people when I was in my 20's, but the people who told me that were from an older generation. Most of that generation married in their early 20's. Things are different now.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@TeresaRudolph71 I appreciate that perspective on it sincerely. It feels like I'm being inundated by the messaging, so glad it's not just me.

And I share your logic, which is why the advice from others feels so strange.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@YourBuddyRandall You're very welcome. :) I wonder how old those people are. 🤔 Perhaps some of them came of age at a time when people married much younger.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@TeresaRudolph71 A couple are older. But one guy is in his thirties and he got married young.

It feels good to know that I'm not necessarily failing life if I'm single right now. XD
Wow im just glad there's no decline in the pool of good cats
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@Dewms I already have a great one!
@YourBuddyRandall awwwwe 💗
SW-User
That really depends on how you define "good".
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@SW-User Yeah. I know. The people making me feel this pressure don't really share my values, but it still kind of freaks out the lower brain. 😤
SW-User
@YourBuddyRandall You're a catch. You'll be fine. :P
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@SW-User 😳 Thank you!
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YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@MalteseFalconPunch clever name, by the way!
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LyricalOne · F
I’d say you have a few good years left old man.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@LyricalOne Thanks! I don't feel old, but people are acting like I am.
LyricalOne · F
@YourBuddyRandall Don’t put so much weight on what “people” have to say. They’re not living your life, you are.
4meAndyou · F
If you don't have a partner by the age of 35, the good ones in your age range are usually all gone.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou 10 year clock, then? 😜
4meAndyou · F
@YourBuddyRandall Yup, or shop the high school grads.
VioletShadows · 51-55, F
I think it has more to do with society than age. While I think it is true, the good news is it only takes one right partner. Patience is really important.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@BeefySenpie Has your experience been different?
@YourBuddyRandall There are many singles past that age, some of which are good I'm sure
Well the chances of finding a virgin become slimmer. I have no idea if that's what you meant by "good potential partners" ?
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@splishsplash I don't know what the people telling me this mean, really.

There have just been people close to me suggesting that I should get a move on.
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or you could always date a chick with daddy issues
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@SW-User That's plan C for sure!
SW-User
I’m beginning to think that’s true I’m 10 years too late.
Possibly in terms of age appropriate partners, people get married or die as time goes on. But it only takes one. My parents recently attended the small wedding of a friend getting married at age 70.
I think at 25 you’ll be fine. 😊
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard That's so sweet!

Thanks for the reassurance.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
If you want a virgin you gonna have to catch them while theyre young 😂
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@MartinTheFirst I'm indifferent to this, personally.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
It's seems that way
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@SkeetSkeet In your personal experience?

 
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