If he’s unwilling to commit after a year, is it time to move on?

His reasoning is “I don’t have the time to give you that you deserve”.

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Keepitsimple · 56-60, F

Usually after a few months you know what direction the relationship is going. A year is way too long to go in relationship limbo.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Keepitsimple Either that or one might notice how the relationship has withered after a year. The first few months might be still a honeymoon.

Keepitsimple · 56-60, F

I’m not even talking marriage, I just mean being exclusive. You need to be on the same page and both see others so you don’t waste your own time on something that seems in neutral anyway.@SimplyTracie

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Keepitsimple I said honeymoon but i only meant it as their level of intimacy.

Personally, I think the guy’s remarks tell the whole story. Thee End. Next chapter. 😝