Have you ever been abused in a relationship? From time to time, a girl tells me about a past or...

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Have you ever been abused in a relationship?

From time to time, a girl tells me about a past or current abusive boyfriend .. was wondering if it happened or was going to happen to anyone reading this and what did they do

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ZairaZenZen · 26-30, F

I was a relationship where I experienced emotional blackmail. I had an awareness that it wasn’t okay, in the end I learned that I wasn’t responsible for his feelings and emotions. It was hard to distance myself from that perspective but it was such a relief when I no longer allowed him to make me feel bad or guilty for his stuff.

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@ZairaZenZen it's one of the worst forms of abuse .. I'm glad you found your way out .. feels good to be free

SW-User

Let down yes. Abused ? No

There isn’t a relationship in the world that’s perfect I honestly believe you have to work hard together as a team to make it work and when one person in the relationship can’t be bothered then the boat starts to rock.

Sometimes the boat takes it’s balance and sails well again other times it sinks lol

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@SW-User what you wrote is so true, I like the comparison 😍

Bigmusicloverfan1 · 41-45, F

I have been put down and been called names if I didn't do as they expected or wasn't as good as something as they expected by several boyfriends in past not sure if classed as abuse or not

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@Bigmusicloverfan1 It's called abuse .. mental abuse .. hoping it'll never happen again 💯

Fantabulous · 46-50, F

I never have, but my friend is currently in one now and amazing how fast he took all her power away - its hard to believe it is the same woman

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@Fantabulous this is pretty bad 😓 hope she can get out of it soon😕

SW-User

I can sense when someone is having abusive tendencies so I leave before it happens.

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@SW-User That's truly smart 💯

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

Emotionally abused, he's my ex for a reason

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@BondGirl84 💯

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

Yes, with 2 of my exes.

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@DearAmbellina2113 😓 hoping it will never happen again💯

SW-User

Yes, mentally abused.

crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@SW-User that's pretty bad 😓

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crystaleagle · 31-35, M

@SW-User 😓❤️

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