Accept my ultimatum, or I'll die.

Complicated question.

I am taken. He is married.
I am happy with my current.
He came in and made me fell in love.
Drama, loads of going back and forth.
Told the truth about us, boyfriend was upset.
I chose to make amends with boyfriend. He is in despair.
He [b]threatens to kill himself[/b] if I don't pick him.
He says he will divorce his wife for me, anything.

But I'm dead set on staying with my current boyfriend and winning his love and trust back.

What can I do about this?
(He is currently in the hospital after we called the cops to intervene his suicide)

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FallenAngel · 31-35, F

No offense but that's why you should leave married people alone and if you're that unhappy in your current relationship just LEAVE instead of falling for the first guy, especially MARRIED guy, who shows you some attention. But since it's too late for all that in your situation, either stay with your bf or go back to the married man. Whether or not he's serious about offing himself if you don't "pick" him is not your concern. You're not responsible for other people's actions, you're responsible for your OWN. Next time think before you jump in with a married man. If Im coming off as a bit harsh it's nothing personal. There's just no excuse for cheating in a relationship. You either stay or leave, not find another little boy toy to play with to make you happy.There are consequences for YOUR actions.

Azoica · 26-30, F

Yeah I've been told. Thanks. :>

I was never so bright in the relationships department, but this was a wake up call for me when I finally knew the magnitude of my actions. I'm ready to take up my responsibility and mark my words, though this will be something I have to wade through first.

It's a long story how everything turned like this. But thanks for taking the time to write a long reply. I really appreciate it!