Accept my ultimatum, or I'll die.

Complicated question.

I am taken. He is married.
I am happy with my current.
He came in and made me fell in love.
Drama, loads of going back and forth.
Told the truth about us, boyfriend was upset.
I chose to make amends with boyfriend. He is in despair.
He [b]threatens to kill himself[/b] if I don't pick him.
He says he will divorce his wife for me, anything.

But I'm dead set on staying with my current boyfriend and winning his love and trust back.

What can I do about this?
(He is currently in the hospital after we called the cops to intervene his suicide)

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SW-User

So the BF is threatening you with suicide?

Azoica · 26-30, F

No, the married guy.

SW-User

Stay well away from the married guy who not only cheats but has psychological issues

[quote]He came in and made me fell in love[/quote]
That's bullshit. Take responsibility for your actions

johnny253 · 70-79, M

@azoica- A lot of men/women say that they'd commit suicide if you leave them because they want to run a guilt trip on you to keep you around. It's an immature ruse. They really wouldn't commit suicide. But if he were really serious I'd hand him the gun , if I were you😀

Azoica · 26-30, F

@johnny253: Yeah that's true. He's still stuck in the hospital, but he didn't commit suicide in the end. He said that he will strive to do better to show me what he's made of, but alright.

Better than killing yourself.