Accept my ultimatum, or I'll die.

Complicated question.

I am taken. He is married.
I am happy with my current.
He came in and made me fell in love.
Drama, loads of going back and forth.
Told the truth about us, boyfriend was upset.
I chose to make amends with boyfriend. He is in despair.
He [b]threatens to kill himself[/b] if I don't pick him.
He says he will divorce his wife for me, anything.

But I'm dead set on staying with my current boyfriend and winning his love and trust back.

What can I do about this?
(He is currently in the hospital after we called the cops to intervene his suicide)

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DiamondsInc · 31-35, F

You can't do anything about his actions. You can only change your own. Don't allow him to manipulate the situation. Do what's best for you.

Azoica · 26-30, F

But I don't want blood in my hands, is there anything I could do about it?

SW-User

@Azoica: Often times, people aren't brave enough to actually kill themselves. They may threaten you to make you stay and that's just shit. Just leave him.

Azoica · 26-30, F

@Cityyy: I really hope that's the case. I'll cross my fingers on that.

SW-User

@Azoica: I've had the same worries as you honestly, but over the years I've been told by a few people that that's how it actually is.

Azoica · 26-30, F

My heartfelt thanks for your well replies. He's absolutely a man of his word, so I hope not.