I called my ex after a 3 month breakup please dont give up reading x

He spoke to me he was ok but kept reminding me that it was me that split with him. Then after me trying to sort things out between us he told me he had met and slept with someone two weeks ago and is dating her. I told him I still loved him and wanted him back. He said it's not that easy & I get it.... but i felt he didn't want me thats why I split with him. He's turned the table and said I should have called sooner I did but he didn't say he wanted me back. The call ended with him saying he would call me tomorrow night. I'm scared to pick up the phone because he may choose to keep dating the new woman. I get the ferling he's playing with my emotions. This is the short version sorry.

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KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

He's punishing you for dumping him. Making himself seem desired by having another woman so you want him more and pulling away so you chase him.

It's a combination of "push me pull me" "stone walling" "the blame game" and "triangulation"

Verdict: move on.

cutiepi22 · F

@KaiserSolze Yeah I think the same. I just didn't take him for playing such a cruel game. Do you think he will tell me it's over tomorrow? Why not tell me tonight?
Torture right. I actually feel he made me split with him now. Manipulation maybe?

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@cutiepi22 at a guess he'll probably tell you that he wants to be with you but it's hard because of the other woman but he really wants you.

He'll draw as many emotions out of you as possible so your more easily controlled.

Much luck and blessings 💜

cutiepi22 · F

@KaiserSolze you right he pulled out all my emotion tonight. I was a mess. I knew he was doing it he's insecure regarding relationships. He wants to hear I love him but admits he finds it difficult to express.

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@cutiepi22 he's not insecure. Insecure people are not master manipulators because they're insecure and lack confidence.

This guy is a master manipulator. He hasn't got an insecure bone in his body.

cutiepi22 · F

@KaiserSolze omg I shiver now at the hell I went through with him ☠ Thanks I believe your right.