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Why do ppl always make dating complicated?

Solenya Best Comment

Wanna keep love simple? Marry your best friend. That way, you have someone who already loved you before sex was part of it, who was already there for you before vows made it official, and you already have compatible interests or personalities, being best friends and all. What makes a better friendship ring than a wedding ring? 😁

Vivaci

Because they read a lot of psychology stuff or cliches, but forget that every couple is unique and so is their dating style.

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Vivaci

@mysixdimensiondreams Yeah, I feel one must meet the new person with very little assumptions in their mind. Be open....whoever wishes to pay the bill, or share it, even if they want to pay for the whole bill...it's all good, what matters is how good the conversation went, how much you feel interested and if you see any future with that person.

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@Vivaci That’s how I feel. Like as long as we’re having a good time nothing else should matter

Vivaci

@mysixdimensiondreams That's right....look at other things like how much he respects his parents, how was his childhood, how he's doing at his job...etc.

Reject · 26-30, M

They haven't learned how to talk about their feelings yet?

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@Reject I guess not

Reject · 26-30, M

@mysixdimensiondreams Almost all complications in a relationship come from someone not saying what needs to be said!

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@Reject That’s so true!

jackson55 · M

People live in their fantasy world on their phone or computer. Then when reality hits it's all different.

Nunlover

Fucked if I know smfh

Solenya

@Nunlover Your comment is the best accidental description of my life.

Nunlover

@Solenya 😂

Synyster · 51-55, M

It's not complicated.

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@Synyster It shouldn’t be but some people make it complicated

Synyster · 51-55, M

@mysixdimensiondreams Absolutely, and not the ones you want to be with.

LyricalOne · F

Because it can be. 🙂

xRedx · M

Because life happens.

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xRedx · M

@mysixdimensiondreams Yeah, don't let it 🙂

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@xRedx Thank you

xRedx · M

@mysixdimensiondreams mmhm, you're welcome

jeancolby · 31-35, F

Its not dating, just a meeting to see if there is something, anything to make it worthwhile to spend a night together.

BearDownChicago · 41-45, M

Too many people don't want to go with the flow. They all want to have an end game. Too many expectations

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@BearDownChicago I don’t have a problem with that part but why not just be open about whatever endgame they have rather than playing games. You can’t expect someone to meet your expectations if they don’t even know what you want from them

in10RjFox · M

just so they don't come out to be run-of-the-mill ..

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@in10RjFox But in there attempts to not come out that way that’s exactly what they do. A bit ironic

in10RjFox · M

@mysixdimensiondreams yeah .. instead of making themselves special, they make themselves rare artificially .. 😀

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@in10RjFox Exactly!

Thespis · M

I wish it was just a reason or two. It doesn't have to be though and it's a wonderful experience when it's easy.

SW-User

Skip dating. Spend time with someone who's company you enjoy and do things together

MsAnnThropy

You answered your own question. People.

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@MsAnnThropy True

approachingmyexpirationdate · 61-69, M

because we all have our own needs and wants

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Like what

mysixdimensiondreams · 31-35, F

@smileylovesgaming like if two ppl like each other why create all these unwritten rules like who’s supposed to call who, and when, and who’s supposed to pay for blank, and how perfect everything is supposed to be. I just feel like everyone is too worried about all the superficial stuff and forget to just enjoy being together