Is this a date?

This guy I work with just suggested I meet him in the city for drinks tonight - he ll be with some friends too. Is it a date? I haven't met his friends before, but he has met mine. We hang out a bit outside of work, sometimes just the two of us, and while there's occasionally an 'atmosphere' between us, he's dated a couple of other girls in two years I've known him. He doesn't hang out with anyone else from work, outside of work.

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SevenTierCrazyCake · F

I wouldn’t say so, no. You’re friends & I’d wager that’s the height of it. That’s not to say he doesn’t find you attractive (refer to said “atmosphere”) but he also hasn’t done anything about it in two whole years!!! I mean, come on!! Either he doesn’t want your relationship to be anything more (he has dated other people so we know he is capable of asking girls out), or he has the backbone of a jellyfish.

I’d say ask him. But two years is already too long a time to hang around waiting on someone who isn’t waiting on you.