Is this a date?

This guy I work with just suggested I meet him in the city for drinks tonight - he ll be with some friends too. Is it a date? I haven't met his friends before, but he has met mine. We hang out a bit outside of work, sometimes just the two of us, and while there's occasionally an 'atmosphere' between us, he's dated a couple of other girls in two years I've known him. He doesn't hang out with anyone else from work, outside of work.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Be careful. Mixing work and extracurricular activities can backfire. Have fun

theentertainer · 36-40, F

@uncalled4 Thanks for the warning - don't worry though, I've considered it. I'm permanent, he's on contract! But really, we don't have to work that closely on a daily basis and our work doesn't have a no-dating policy, so I think it's all ok.