I need real advice please!

So, I have been in a relationship for almost 3.5 years. My boyfriend is 26 and lives about a 10 min walk from me so we used to hangout almost everyday. My boyfriend doesn’t work, has no education, still lives at home, does not have a car or drivers license, he never takes me out anywhere (never has) besides to eat and even that I have to plan! He is also very immature, lazy and full of excuses. I am so unhappy and have given him chance after chance to change but he always has an excuse. He says I need to help him make a resume because he doesn’t know how? He is 26 years old!!! I have to add, he is nice to me and hasn’t cheated (as far as I’m concerned). I am just looking for advice, should I leave this relationship or wait around for him? If you have the time, I would love for you to go into detail! I am so lost and no one I know has been in this situation. Thank you in advance! 🙂

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katielass · F

If you are not happy or if you feel you can't live life to the fullest you're probably in the wrong relationship. Some people hold you back and others allow you to spread your wings and fly. Only you can decide if your partner is holding you back. My only real advice to you would be to make a decision based on what this relationship offers or doesn't offer. Try not to think thoughts like but if I ditch him I'll be alone. Of course you will, until you find someone else. And that someone might be just what you need.