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I need real advice please!

So, I have been in a relationship for almost 3.5 years. My boyfriend is 26 and lives about a 10 min walk from me so we used to hangout almost everyday. My boyfriend doesn’t work, has no education, still lives at home, does not have a car or drivers license, he never takes me out anywhere (never has) besides to eat and even that I have to plan! He is also very immature, lazy and full of excuses. I am so unhappy and have given him chance after chance to change but he always has an excuse. He says I need to help him make a resume because he doesn’t know how? He is 26 years old!!! I have to add, he is nice to me and hasn’t cheated (as far as I’m concerned). I am just looking for advice, should I leave this relationship or wait around for him? If you have the time, I would love for you to go into detail! I am so lost and no one I know has been in this situation. Thank you in advance! 🙂
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What does he even bring to the relationship?
Fernie · F
@Callmewhatyouwill I really hope she answers this question...it's a great one
@Fernie Yes. I'm waiting too. Really curious what her answer is
Darcyxo · 26-30, F
@Callmewhatyouwill To be honest, nothing at all. He’s a nice guy and has a big heart, but he’s just a bum to me now that I can’t get rid of. I know it’s harsh and I feel bad about it but, I can’t change the way I feel. I’m just confused why I just can’t end it!
@Darcyxo you're afraid to hurt him. And afraid of the change. But it won't so you anygood holding on