Who do u think is in the wrong?

Guys... Say if ur girlfriend gets a phone call from a guy she used to like but never dated but stopped liking him some time b4 getting with u... the guy is just calling to say hi & is aware she's dating u...

Did u get mad at ur girlfriend if the other guy rang & the fact she told u about that phone call?

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Capt11 · 46-50, M

I am going to share this with you maybe you will understand. Being older we are supposed to be more mature. However our age comes with negative experiences. Every person relates in response to things differently. If something like that happened in the past and it caused him hurt because the woman was not as honorable as you feel you are, then it was a bad thing to do.

When I start dating somebody I go through my list of contacts. If I think that person would make my new person uncomfortable I have a conversation with that person. Sometimes they understand sometimes they don't. It is good to set up healthy boundaries with people who you have had emotional connections to in the past. It shows respect and maturity also it eliminates problems.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Capt11 I totally agree with u... I think along the same lines too... my question came up in a conversation with someone I know & I was just wondering what others thought

Capt11 · 46-50, M

It is very hard to navigate and learn a new person especially when they have had life experiences you may not be aware of. I appreciate you taking the time to reply I hope you have a good day. I also hope that post will help you in some way shape or form.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Capt11 thanks fit ur comments but it wasn't me affected by it & I told my mate similar to what u said & she was kicking off about it... unfortunately some don't want to listen... thanks tho