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Who do u think is in the wrong?

Guys... Say if ur girlfriend gets a phone call from a guy she used to like but never dated but stopped liking him some time b4 getting with u... the guy is just calling to say hi & is aware she's dating u...

Did u get mad at ur girlfriend if the other guy rang & the fact she told u about that phone call?
Oleander · 31-35, F
Have a threesome. Work all issues out in bed.
@Oleander You think the petty man who can't handle a phone call is going to navigate the craziness that comes with a threesome? :p
Oleander · 31-35, F
@RandomForest Then i guess we know which man is superior. Problem solved.
Didn't say you need to get to the bed part to begin solving issues, hehe.
@Oleander 😂 that's true.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
I am going to share this with you maybe you will understand. Being older we are supposed to be more mature. However our age comes with negative experiences. Every person relates in response to things differently. If something like that happened in the past and it caused him hurt because the woman was not as honorable as you feel you are, then it was a bad thing to do.

When I start dating somebody I go through my list of contacts. If I think that person would make my new person uncomfortable I have a conversation with that person. Sometimes they understand sometimes they don't. It is good to set up healthy boundaries with people who you have had emotional connections to in the past. It shows respect and maturity also it eliminates problems.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@Capt11 I totally agree with u... I think along the same lines too... my question came up in a conversation with someone I know & I was just wondering what others thought
Capt11 · 46-50, M
It is very hard to navigate and learn a new person especially when they have had life experiences you may not be aware of. I appreciate you taking the time to reply I hope you have a good day. I also hope that post will help you in some way shape or form.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@Capt11 thanks fit ur comments but it wasn't me affected by it & I told my mate similar to what u said & she was kicking off about it... unfortunately some don't want to listen... thanks tho
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Not mad at all...she has rights to talk to whomever she wants too
nilammagi · 46-50, F
@PTCdresser57 You are absolutely right.
I'm a single gentleman now, however, I can say it would be exhausting to try to manage who contacts any woman I'm dating. She's a grown woman, she can figure it out.
Raymuundo · 46-50, M
It might be a little weird but I would be glad she told me.
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
All I have to say is that relationships are too delicate and even our gestures must show respect to each others. Understand him and he needs to understand you. Make that guy never reach you again
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Your present relationship will be stronger with each being open about such things (it can be more than just a call to say hello..).
We are all an accumulation of our past, and that never leaves us.
It is about the trust and devotion you have for your present partner that counts.
For me, I believe in POLYANDRY... And know that a happy woman needs several lovers at the same time..
So there is never any jealousy from me. Just keep me on the top of the heap and I'll share in your happiness..
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
That guy is being annoying ringing s taken person he’s trying to ruin it.
SW-User
My low self esteem would prompt suspicion, but I'd try not to let it get out of hand.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Is this a relationship between highschool kids? If not..it should be a dead relationship. When petty stuff like this is a problem there are bigger issues.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@JaggedLittlePill yea was a bunch of 20 year olds lol not me thankfully a bit immature to be honest on all accounts lol
firefall · 61-69, M
no, that would be irrational, to say the least
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
Short answers,
I would not get mad, if that´s all what is going on.
And if (only if) there is a small bit than what was told, I would not get mad, I would walk away without looking back.

May I elaborate this? Or doing so would fall beyond the intented scope of your question?
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
@CharlieZ U can elaborate if u wish!
missionfigdeluxe · 61-69, M
No I don’t
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It depends on what it was about tbh
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