How offten do you marred for love but ten years later it is like a roomate not a wife?
i marred the love of my life and now i am so alone and she doesn't seem to care.
31-35, M
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
both got lazy
we learn to take each other for granted
try buying her something nice
take her on a date
it might not be to late to turn it around
But ,if she has hardened her heart ,and she don't care
you can hang it up ,,yall are on life support
you just don't know it yet
But I hear ya ,,,,,I have ruined 2 good women
it wasn't as easy being a wife as I assumed
Now that I have health issues and I am home all the time
most of the time alone ,,my kids all have lives too
I get how lonely being a wife can be
we learn to take each other for granted
try buying her something nice
take her on a date
it might not be to late to turn it around
But ,if she has hardened her heart ,and she don't care
you can hang it up ,,yall are on life support
you just don't know it yet
But I hear ya ,,,,,I have ruined 2 good women
it wasn't as easy being a wife as I assumed
Now that I have health issues and I am home all the time
most of the time alone ,,my kids all have lives too
I get how lonely being a wife can be
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
You've been married 10 years?!
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KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
@lonelylonelyer that sounds nice.
lonelylonelyer · 31-35, M
@KaiserSolze it was everything to me once upon a time
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
@lonelylonelyer it's what happens after the "happy ever after" that counts
GreenGoddess · F
Sometimes love fades. You should talk to her about it and see if there's anything still there worth preserving.
lonelylonelyer · 31-35, M
@GreenGoddess i have and she just wants to bitch abot small stuff and avoid talking about important stuff
MarineBob · 56-60, M
better start doing those weekly date nights, no friends, no kids something different each week
lonelylonelyer · 31-35, M
@MarineBob lol i wish we are the people in the family that do for everyone and no one helps us
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
I think that happens to a lot of people. I hear marriage described as a "business deal" quite often.
Wow sad. Im leaving as soon as my husband acts up. I wasnt raised to sit around unhappy.
SW-User
It happens too often
lonelylonelyer · 31-35, M
@SW-User it kinda sucks pretty bad i wont leave her but am starving
SW-User
Wasn't the case.