I don't get it.

I've talked to a couple of different guys in the past few months, there are 2 guys in particular that I was talking to and both of them actually said that they liked me and expressed interest. One of them was ok to chat with as a friend, but I didn't feel that same way about him romantically, so I told him in a kind way how I felt. The other guy, I DID feel the same way, so I told him how I felt.

Why is it that the guy I said I wasn't interested in was still trying to contact me and see if things could work, but the guy who I was interested in stopped contacting me? I really just don't get it.

Part of me was to give up on dating.

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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Tell me about it. Everyone I show interest in is trying to sleep with me or not interested. Everyone I couldn’t care less about wants romantic bliss or some crap with me. I’m currently being stalked by someone who would love to know everything about me. The guy I picked offered himself up within a few days and never asks anything.

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@PaleandPolluted EXACTLY! I just don't get it. 💁

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@sweetiepoo people aren’t attracted to people being too emotionally available? I’m not sure myself. I think they enjoy a challenge.

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@PaleandPolluted I guess so. Maybe I shouldn't respond. Men are weird.