What is the most painful thing that the person you love have done to you?

I don't know if it was the cheating by the 1st and 2nd ex, or the long slow series of abuses by the 3rd ex. I think it was the 2nd ex who really hurt me sharply, in my soul. He and I had a baby, and it was completely unexpected.

The third ex tortured me slowly, so it was a series of events that gradually cut my soul to ribbons. It just didn't hurt quite as sharply or horribly.