I tell the truth as much as possible, humanly. Why deny facts?

If it was true.
One can be separated and working out the details of the divorce and dividing up assets

Why not...it would seem deceptive, otherwise.

You could be permanently emotionally or philosophically or both, severed in your marriage, but the courts still treats you as a unified pair in matters of civil law unless you physically separate or file a notice with the register of deeds.

Usually there's a definite time limit to these things.

I don’t tell anyone anything, for religious and criminal reasons , my marriages are kept secret

For those with the need to know, I'd tell them. It's a practical thing to do--living together.

I would, I have in fact..
If it's the truth then why not?

What can get more ugliest then that.

Id have to.why lie?

NEVER

No need to lie. The truth will surface eventually.

If it was the truth