Ladies: do you respect a weak/beta male?

Depends, who gets to call him weak? Who gives out the beta cards and in what order? Does anyone who doesn't want to be a leader or boss or top dog or whatever other thing you consider alpha, become a weak beta? I see more strength in choosing a "weak" way of life than in being an attention hog assertive at all cost with ambition as the only driving force in your life. That sounds like true weakness to me because it's easy to be selfish it's easy to want to stand out, it's hard to be selfless to realize you are a insignificant cog in the humanity machine and to keep on going because you know you're doing your part for others not because you're gonna stand out and feel special (when you're not really) that sounds hard to me. So I guess to know if I hate weakness I must first know if we define weakness the same way.