So... um. What do you think..?

I'm very close friends to a girl I like, and I find out from another friend of mine that he intends to ask her out.

Few days later, I get a message from the same girl, asking me how to 'reject' him nicely.. Thoughts?

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

There is no "nice" way to reject someone but you can be clear and respectful. She is "hinting" to you that she prefers you to him. This is a person who communicates in hints. If she gets tired of you, she will hint about it and maybe consult your rival for the best way to hint to you that she is no longer interested. Remember that.

Samael

Somehow, not too concerned about rivals.. And uh.. I think the hint was obvious when she said "I'd rather date you and have him as a friend." But, I'm not ready; and I've told her that. My ex has really left a scar.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Don't blame her for what someone else did. But I have a feeling you're right to protect yourself. People who hint are hard to read. You could be developing some good instincts.

Samael

@greenmountaingal: not blaming anyone for anything, if you think I'm blaming my ex. If anything, it'll always be my fault anyway. Call it good instincts if you like; but this is just me not wanting to be that close to someone.

zoiera

Well, if a friend comes to you for advice, you give them the best that you can give

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