Is this rude ? Calling someone or something they do basic

This guy asked me out and I said yes and he asked me what I'm doing and I told him I was going hiking in vail . And he said I will withhold the "basic" comments for now.

I actually kind of offended by that comment like who cares if its basic and why do people say that anyway. I kind of dont want to go on a date with him if he's going to judge me on something I really enjoy doing .

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

He said that he would withhold the basic comments? Or ordered you to withhold your comments? I don't think "basic" is the issue here.

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

@MartinTheFirst he said he will withhold any basic comments ... or now

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 Then what exactly is offending you?

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

its kind of insulting calling some basic

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 He never called you basic. He said that he wouldn't share his own basic comments, I take from how you worded it.

Is english your first language?

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

ummmm yes I'm American

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 i see

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

@MartinTheFirst and I don't know any other language why did you ask that?

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 Because you make it about you but he said that his own comments were basic, correct?

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

no he was saying , that what I like to do is basic , because I asked how it was and he said this
1.vail
2.hiking in vail
3. loves fall
4. loves fall leaves

does that make sense?

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 not really.. can you send me a screenshot of the communication? If you want help understanding the situation that is.

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

sure one second