Encontrados · 46-50, M
LyricalOne · F
indyjoe · 56-60, M
I've always been skeptical of long distance romances/relationships, some of them work but so many more end up either a constant struggle or even disastrous. Now to me living with relatives is definitely a no go. I realize that there may be circumstances when it might be a necessity, but that should be temporary at best. Whether the couple (or family) lives in the relative's home or has the relatives in theirs it is often asking for trouble if not immediately from the get go, then somewhere down the line. Lots of clashing and tension (not to mention potential interference) is inevitable and a ticking time bomb just waiting to explode. I personally wouldn't recommend it unless you happen to be the Waltons.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Not a bad idea. In some countries it's pretty much the norm since housing prices make it really hard for people to leave their parents home so unless you want to start dating in your 30s as a virgin, having a relationship while living with relatives is the thing to do. Don't know if that's a weird thing where you live.
kimberlyJay · 31-35, F
@kayoshin no that's exactly what I am going through now lol!😂😂😂😂
kimberlyJay · 31-35, F
@Northwest well the relatives I live nitpick everything I do or constantly giving their opinions about who I date and it's not positive most of the times even though I'm an adult I still have to hear their negative opinions about who I fall in love with.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Northwest You missed the point on this one...it's not where you live it about the with who. As I said in my reply, temporarily living with relatives isn't a bad thing when it's necessary, but in long term or even indefinitely there will eventually be clashing and even interference because not only are personalities different...but also routines, lifestyles, opinions and beliefs about family/relationship things, and so on.
