Is my friend jealous ?

Is it Ok to spend more time with my boyfriend than with my friends? most of my friends don't mind and understand. But my best friend says Im spending more time with him than with her I told her its because she's not in relationship that she doesn't understand . Its not like I spend every second with him I see him a few times and and see her too. Is that ok to that spend more time with him? Is my friend being unfair or jealous?

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bijouxbroussard · F

It's possible she's jealous, but there are some women who regularly dump their friends when they have a boyfriend, to the point of canceling previously made plans or not making plans with friends unless the boyfriend is not available. Not saying that's what you're doing, but it happens. I've had friends that I knew operated that way. I wouldn't see them or be able to count on them until the 'relationship' had run its course and they returned, needing the solace of friends.

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard Im not like that I have girls night and hang out with her with a few times a week without him and its not being he cant hang out. My sister has down that to me my whole life. and the reason I distanced myself from because because she would make me feel bad about going on date with him. I should have put the back story on the question its making me sound awful

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Jealous. Stop being a bitch and give her some of your time.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 Yeah... so she's hurt, thinking like you have or will abandon her, and feeling like you have betrayed her. You haven't really done anything wrong, but it's all feelings at this point.

You have to decide whether you are willing to let her know you are not choosing your bf over her, but that she needs to give you time to be with him.

mwoodl21 · 31-35, F

@MarkPaulI have and I will again, thanks

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@mwoodl21 All the best.

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