We all need someone who loves us unconditionally, listens without judgement and believes in us completely.

@popmol I believe in it to a certain extent, but I also believe that it doesn't completely and truly exist either. Let me try to explain...My wife loves me "unconditionally" in a sense, however she expects to be respected, expects me to remain loyal and faithful, and wants to be loved in return. Those are "conditions" that would be deal breakers if I don't honor them. She loves me regardless of past mistakes and wrongs, inspite of my flaws (physically, mentally, emotionally, in character and personality) and that's what I call "unconditional" (she accepts and loves me for who I am). See what I mean?

@indyjoe well of course thats love. and i might be able to love someone like that but if my partner is in the wrong then i'll call her out on her bullshit. unless i go full love mode and just walk behind her like a puppy but since that is probably not going to happen.

i can put of all doubts and judgement temporarily but not forever i just can't so i don't see it happening. but there are those people whatever their partner does they never judge and always forgive but thats close to an abusive relationship.