Why do men not care to fix a relationship or marriage until it actually falls apart completely ?
36-40, F
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Dontbeanass · 36-40, F
I think a lot of men don’t realize how bad it actually is until it’s completely fallen apart. My friends husband didn’t try to fix anything until she told him she wanted a divorce and when they went to therapy he told her he just didn’t realize how unhappy she had been because she kept doing everything she always had like taking care of the kids and house and going to work etc. Other parts of the marriage that were failing he just assumed happened in all marriages so he didn’t realize he needed to fix it.
JoeyFoxx · 56-60, M
Since the OP is a woman and the topic is marriage, then the post is about both men and women. The question in the post, as clarified in many other replies, is categorically incorrect as it implies that only men wait until things fall apart, where it is clear that women do this too. @Fernie
With that said, having this kind of debate on someone else’s post is unfair to the author, so I will most respectfully bow out of this conversation and yield the floor
With that said, having this kind of debate on someone else’s post is unfair to the author, so I will most respectfully bow out of this conversation and yield the floor