If your ex was in an accident and called you to be by his/her side at the hospital, would you go?

It sounds cold (maybe even cruel), but no I would not. Even if she were mortally wounded in that accident on the edge of dying and asked for me and her family called me...I might extend my apologies and condolences to them, but I would not go. She wasn't there for me years ago when I needed her, and now I have someone who has been and always is there for me now. It would be highly disrespectful to her for me to do so.