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How ‘bout try something totally different....start over. Start romancing each other again. Just start from scratch. Practice better communication, respect, and showing more love. Sounds crazy, but who knows...just may work, but it takes two. Make it fun. Make it into a family game, even though it is definitely important. I’d start by each of you getting a sheet of paper and write numbers 1 through 20. That’s not too long. Each of you list your pros on one half of the sheet and your cons on the other. Then work through them one by one and discuss. When you’ve achieved the first, mark it off. Talk about it and work each thing out before going to the next thing. NO ARGUING ALLOWED and, no raising voices. Do things for each other you haven’t done in a long time. Make time for each other, actually setting a “date” day or night to go out and have fun. Surprise each other, leave little love notes, be spontaneous.