I Have To Say About Dating And Relationships

I am lost whether I am settling or not. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 years now. He is great and I have love hanging out with him but there are countless of times that I have seriously spoken to him about something that he needed to change. Now, I've seen some changes but they are changes that lead to nowhere, we are not progressing, they are like band aids that temporarily fix the problem. Now I dont mean to change him as a person but I am confused whether I am waiting for something that is not going to happen or am just impatient. It has been months and have not seen any real progress. He is a great guy, but I fear that I will wake up one day and not feel anything for this guy. What do you think? need more info?

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JP1119 · 36-40, M

Update? What did you do? And how is it working out for you?

Misskc23 · 31-35, F

@JP1119 well part of the problem is drinking and things have gotten better. Although there are other things that have not changed. I feel like there is this constant problem between him and I regarding affection. Not everyone woman wants affection and I understand that. I told him that I understand he loves me but he needs to communicate it in the form I perceive it as love and up to this day. It feels like pulling teeth and it's very frustrating. sometimes I wonder whether I am settling or just impatient