Never take your friendships and relationships for granted.

They may be hanging on a thread, and you may have no idea. As comfortable as you may think your friend or significant other is telling you about their needs and feelings, they may not be. Do not assume your perception is accurate.

In order to be more approachable, do not chastise people for sharing opinions with you that you disagree with. Do not shout at them. You will regret it. Most people already feel uncomfortable communicating with people to begin with. Reacting harshly and not with love is a recipe for disaster. If you cannot respond with love right now, then wait until you can. And be humble. You may be wrong! Just please, protect communication like a newborn puppy.

If you have already failed in this regard, admit it, and make it known that you are going to make efforts to reform.