To all the shy guys:

how do I know if he’s shy or he just doesn’t wanna be talked to? He generally seems like a sweet and nice guy but sometimes he kind of closes up. Like he’s shy. He’s helped me out with some things a couple times, let me say hi to his dog and even joked a little with me about other small things but usually he’s pretty minimal with interaction. It seems genuine but it’s minimal. I can’t help but feel that maybe I should just leave him alone. I mean I don’t bother him up the ass for crying out loud, it’s just that the interactions between us are a little awkward. Because of him not me.

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Lolco · 36-40, M

If you like him, tell him : )

That was me in my teens lol 😅 I’m wayy more social & outgoing but still very introverted at heart.

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Lolco I mean I do think he’s cute and everything and you can say I’m crushing but I don’t wanna just out and say that. I kinda wanna start off as getting to know him and then just see where it goes from there. (Psssh I wish I had the balls to tell someone that tho. No way, jose! Not me🙅🏽‍♀️) I’m starting to exit my teens and I’m still like that. The only reason I’m not initially like that with him is because we work together. This is work, I don’t have a choice lol but then he starts being like that and it throws me off and then I start being like that too and it gets hopeless. Lol

Lolco · 36-40, M

@Sb356 lol thanks for sharing all that with me .... I see a lot of me in the both of you : P I really hope something comes between you too I really do... I was gonna suggest to take a risk so you won’t regret later but now that I know you guys work together it could be awkward depending on the outcome or what may happen in the future, anyways hoping the best for you!

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Lolco yeah I hope something comes too but who knows. He may not even be single and here I am losing my mind for no reason🤣🤣 (cute ass guys like that are never single. There’s no way.) But thank you !! :-))

Lolco · 36-40, M

@Sb356 lol you’re welcome