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Is it biased or wrong not to trust African men?

I'm from USA and I have had some bad encounters with African men. Most if not all of them who contact me out of interest are very... eager. They rush to try to get my number, they rush to talk about marriage, they rush to say "I love you" and I don't even know them. I'm not into the intergeographical dating either. I have too much going on for that. Plus, it makes me think they need a green card or something. AM I wrong for that?

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

They want your info
they sell it
you are just one of many profiles they hit in a day

most are little kids with a script they copy and paste

ask them questions ,you will see they are not ever reading your reply
Its all about getting other info that someone else can use to create an identity using your name
I get them from women who love me ,God has shown her she is my next mate

I now have a standard reply I send them saying I do not give info or money to strangers on the net ,have a good day

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@rckt148 thanks

FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F

no, Certain pats of the world have lots of scammers so being careful is smart.

SW-User

Nigerian scam artists is a real thing. So is the Russian brides scam.

Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

You're not biased, just cautious. Heck you should play along with them, while contacting the appropriate authorities.
Seems like the may be internet scammers.

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sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@Groofydorkgerdo If they hadn't asked for money, what exactly would I say to them?

Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

@sweetiepoo Scammers seldom ask for.money at first.
They wait, up to a year or so.
Just tell them you are receiving questionable correspondence.

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@Groofydorkgerdo ok, that's good to know. So, even on a dating site?

MarmeeMarch · M

you are dead right - dont fall prey for a scammer - unless you have a ton of money you want to hand out

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sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@MarmeeMarch well, I know I would never give any money. I had some idiots call me yesterday trying to get money, one of those automated scam calls

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sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@MarmeeMarch wow that's crazy. These type of people make it hard for the good, honest people. smh.

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sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@AMERICA1ST ist of all, what is beaners, and 2nd, I am not trusting these people due to "RACE, it's due to LOCATION. Huge difference. Not trusting them due to race, would make me a racist, not trusting them due to location, I guess would make me a "locationist"? lol, just trying to keep it light with a little humor. Strictly speaking for Americans, none of us should judge others based on skin color. We all are different individuals and one bad apple doesn't spoil the whole bunch, whether black, white, purple or yellow. What goes in other countries is insane.

SW-User

Are you talking about online stuff? No matter the skin color, when someone tells you they love you and wants to marry you and you barely know them, it's a scam. You're old enough to know that. Why are you wasting your time talking to these guys?

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@SW-User As soon as they say stuff like that, I end the communication.

sweetiepoo · 36-40, F

@SW-User yes. I'm on a couple of dating apps/sites

SW-User

@sweetiepoo Good. Just keep your guard up at all times. It's not about the country. It's about the person and their intentions.

SW-User

Nothing wrong.

Just want to say I love you. Pm me your number please? I just want to talk.

SW-User

@SW-User lol. Tell her you want to marry her.

SW-User

@SW-User😂. By the way, I love you too😉. Pm me your number? I love American woman so beautiful. 😚

SW-User

@SW-User 🤗😍

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

I have had a few message me on here. You can all was tell right where they are from. They try WAY to hard to get a girlfriend.

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