Should I meet up with my ex?

My ex messaged me saying she wants to meet up soon. I haven't spoken to her in a year and my feelings for her have genuinely gone. She's since got together with another guy and I've been dating around. I initially said no to meeting up with her but I'm going to be in her city next week, should I message her?

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Trevo · 26-30, M

But why? Does her boyfriend know? Will he be there?

stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@Trevo no he lives in a different city. They're both at me school together, which I left a year ago. she just wants to have a friendly coffee but I don't want to be that guy who messages her ex you know

Trevo · 26-30, M

@stevenjames93 If you still see her as a friend and would want to meet her, you can do it, but I think you should only do it if her boyfriend knows about it. And in case she doesn't know yet, let her know that you don't have feelings for her anymore