Should I meet up with my ex?

My ex messaged me saying she wants to meet up soon. I haven't spoken to her in a year and my feelings for her have genuinely gone. She's since got together with another guy and I've been dating around. I initially said no to meeting up with her but I'm going to be in her city next week, should I message her?

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Winenot · 51-55, F

Why does she want to meet up? If you think you could catch up without hard feelings and you think it would be pleasant, sure.

stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

@Winenot we used to be good friends before we got together, we realised it wouldn't work and left it at that, slowly drifted away from each other. It would be pleasant but I don't want her to have the satisfaction of "hey look, my ex is still thinking about me"

Winenot · 51-55, F

@stevenjames93 If that is even a thought running thru your mind, pass. Although, [b]she[/b] contacted you, right?

stevenjames93 · 26-30, M

Yeah true but she is the type to play games haha. I think I'm going to leave it and not message her.