I've seen many guys on the internet complain about females wanting to do things that consist of not staying home, per se...

I'm not meaning that a couple has to go out All The Time, what I mean is it appears to be A Lot of the time the guys want to stay home to do nothing (or do the same mundane things repeatedly). It seems they want to go out with the female in the beginning but soon changes to a "comfortable" (for lack of a better word) level of... doing nothing at all. Staring at the same 4 walls majority of the time.

I can stare at the same 4 walls by myself just fine. Why add someone else into the scene to do that?

So if I can do more for/with myself while alone what's the point in dating/entering into a relationship.

(*I am aware this may come off the wrong way when I mention it about guys but it can be the opposite as well :) )

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lilteacup

I think there are varying degrees of extroverts and introverts in the world.

I consider myself a social introvert. I dated someone who was an extrovert and it was exhausting.

I think knowing who you are and finding someone to match your energy is a good idea. They say opposites attract - LOL. Opposites may attract but eventually repel one another. ☺

Cloud7593 · 46-50, F

@lilteacup Sometimes the 2 opposites can be good for each other. An extrovert gets the introvert moving and the introvert can slow the extrovert down when needed. Of course if the 2 is at extremes it's as you say, repel each other.

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@lilteacup I think that's a good point mentioning introverts and extroverts.

Personally, I consider myself to be both... depending on the situation. I find it exhausting to try to get someone out of their "shell" to go do things...