How do I get her out of my head?

It's been 17 months since our break up and yet most every day shes on my mind. Its actually pissing me off. I cant seem to rid her memory. There's no going back, I just want to move on. any suggestions?

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Mondayschild · F

Have you considered military service? You could travel and get paid. You would have everything you need and you would not have time to think about her. This stage you are stuck in would evaporate.

Serenitree · F

@Mondayschild Military service or something similar, without the potential for needing to kill someone.
Maybe the Peace Corps, or GreenPeace, or its American equivalent.

Mondayschild · F

@Serenitree I have a friend that had the same situation and he joined the Army. He spent a year in the Midwest and three years in Hawaii. He hot married in August and has reenlisted for six more years. He turned his life completely around

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Mondayschild I know a lot of people who hot married. 'We got married in a fever hotter than a pepper sprout. We been talking 'bout Jackson ever since the fire went out...'

Mondayschild · F

@Mamapolo2016 I can hear it🤣

Serenitree · F

@Mondayschild I've heard of people who've done the same and had the same basic luck. Then again, I've had friends and acquaintances who've chosen not to enlist because they have no wish to kill or be killed. It's great if they get those pleasant assignments, but they can be sure. They don't get to choose.

And of course there are the ones who come home in a box.