Have you ever felt so overwhelmed with someone’s love that you want to stay away from them?
Like you love them too but it’s very overwhelming because you haven’t experience that way before
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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Nope. Only if I'm not into them. Otherwise, I have to hold myself back. I'm a disgusting romantic, at heart, so I have to mentally stab him a couple times to keep him from coming out.
But no. I don't get scared of love. I can handle it. There may have been some times when I wasn't ready, or when I was weaker, where I withdrew. But, it's not a big deal for me, now. I can control it.
But no. I don't get scared of love. I can handle it. There may have been some times when I wasn't ready, or when I was weaker, where I withdrew. But, it's not a big deal for me, now. I can control it.
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@Yopi16 You'll be okay. You just have to think about whether you are ready or not. ^^ Though, I saw your comment, below.
It's exactly because you made those mistakes that you are better suited for it, now. You should have grown from those mistakes. You know what to watch out for. But you'll probably make more mistakes. And when you do, you will have to adjust, again.
If he is the perfect guy for you, then he will be able to work with you on those mistakes. You don't have to be perfect. No one can obtain that goal. Being in a relationship is growing, together, towards perfection, yet never reaching it.
The only purpose of fear is to be overcome.
It's exactly because you made those mistakes that you are better suited for it, now. You should have grown from those mistakes. You know what to watch out for. But you'll probably make more mistakes. And when you do, you will have to adjust, again.
If he is the perfect guy for you, then he will be able to work with you on those mistakes. You don't have to be perfect. No one can obtain that goal. Being in a relationship is growing, together, towards perfection, yet never reaching it.
The only purpose of fear is to be overcome.