Have you ever felt so overwhelmed with someone’s love that you want to stay away from them?

Like you love them too but it’s very overwhelming because you haven’t experience that way before

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SW-User

And you don't wanna ruin it cuz you're scared you won't be able to handle it well. Ah well. Yes.

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

I feel you @SW-User

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Nope. Only if I'm not into them. Otherwise, I have to hold myself back. I'm a disgusting romantic, at heart, so I have to mentally stab him a couple times to keep him from coming out.

But no. I don't get scared of love. I can handle it. There may have been some times when I wasn't ready, or when I was weaker, where I withdrew. But, it's not a big deal for me, now. I can control it.

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

That’s good. I’m happy for you. @Tatsumi

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

@Yopi16 You'll be okay. You just have to think about whether you are ready or not. ^^ Though, I saw your comment, below.

It's exactly because you made those mistakes that you are better suited for it, now. You should have grown from those mistakes. You know what to watch out for. But you'll probably make more mistakes. And when you do, you will have to adjust, again.

If he is the perfect guy for you, then he will be able to work with you on those mistakes. You don't have to be perfect. No one can obtain that goal. Being in a relationship is growing, together, towards perfection, yet never reaching it.

The only purpose of fear is to be overcome.

texasdaddydom · 56-60, M

is it really overwhelming or is doubt and fear making you reject it?

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

@texasdaddydom probably doubt and fear.

texasdaddydom · 56-60, M

it is always risky to invest emotionally but the price of unwilling to do so, being forever alone, makes it a no brainer to me. its ok to be prudent and take time no reason to move quickly on matters of the heart but if there are no red flags i suggest you give it chance.

SW-User

Yes when it feels fake for some reason or it is suffocating

JustGoneNow ·

That’s what they say about me though.

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Reject · 26-30, M

What makes it overwhelming? Is there something you're afraid of?

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Yopi16 · 31-35, F

That’s true. I just don’t want to mess it up because I think that oerson is just the perfect human being for me@Reject

Reject · 26-30, M

@Yopi16 Make up for it by being the perfect human being for them. Fear won't help you do that. Caring about their needs will.

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

That’s true. Thank you so much @Reject

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