Would you give up if you were in my shoes?

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Yes

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I've been speaking to someone online for 13-14 months, we have not yet met because of his insecurities despite me starting to push recently. We also have been drifting the last two months, and I expressed myself last night for the first time as I'm normally too scared, I told him that I'm constantly on edge, I asked loads of questions which he did not answer. He just told me that I'm only thinking about myself, his responses to constant paragraphs were pretty cold and only a couple of words, very different how he used to act and he just said "ok" when I said a very caring, loving goodnight to him... not sure what to do, you probably think I'm stupid for waiting this long, but I'm now running out of patience and feeling insecure in myself. What would you do, would you of given up by now?

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madasalizard · 36-40, M

Yeah this one is done I'm afraid. Sounds like he's met someone new and they have all his interest now. And not meeting due to insecurities? That's a red flag in itself. Both from the same country?

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@madasalizard Yes, we both live in the same country, and to be more specific around 200 miles away we both live in the middle of nowhere, so it's hard to access. But the end of last year I tried to organise something, and mentioned the best train routes and buses/locations to meet that were relatively cheap aswell. He said he dislikes his skin, and is scared I'll change my mind when I see how "ugly" he really is in person, which to be in BS. I wouldn't of been so hooked this long if I found him "ugly"