What does one do when they accidentally find out their ex-boyfriend is gay??

Yeah, so I wasn't supposed to find this out... My best friend knew, as did two other friends of mine, but I was never told. Not even when we were dating and he was looking at other guys. I feel like a fool. I don't even know how to handle this. Any suggestions??

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Serenitree · F

He's your ex. No more need to even think about it. He must have seen something in you that he liked. Just because he is gay, doesn't mean he can't like women.

Feel like a fool? Why? Were you supposed to have detected it? Let it go. It's nothing wrong with you.

Handle it? Don't bother. It's over between you. Now if you came home and found him in your bed with a guy, you might have some emotional trauma,,but you're hearing this news after its all done.

Just get on with your life and be happy you didn't marry him and have a couple of kids to try explaining it to.