What does one do when they accidentally find out their ex-boyfriend is gay??

Yeah, so I wasn't supposed to find this out... My best friend knew, as did two other friends of mine, but I was never told. Not even when we were dating and he was looking at other guys. I feel like a fool. I don't even know how to handle this. Any suggestions??

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Diane1949 · 70-79, F

There is no reason for you to feel like a fool. Apparently they all went to a lot of trouble to keep you in the dark. Be grateful that you didn't marry him and then find out. No reason you can't still be friends with him if you ended on a good note and not nasty.