overbearing in law. what do I do?

So I meet my bf mum for the first time, and she starts by asking what I do for a living when she already knows (I work from home doing catering/farmers market /frozen meals) I love what I do and I make money. She goes on to say that's not a real job job and I HAVE to work.she then asks me why I don't drive and she likes girls to be independent . Me and my bf want to live together most of our stuff like fridge and stove is coming from my parents who have retired and giving it to me because they get new stuff so they helping me, she is not offering anything yet she doesn't want him to take his bed and TV from their home that he paid for . She keeps tell me well you know my son has forgotten his family very since he met you . After lunch I had to do all the dishes while she storing the back and watched. During the time she only insulted my bf and kept saying oh he won't make it and he's so lazy .
Am I wrong to be upset?after the meeting I had to come home and rest my head because I felt physically sick . She also said we cant move in together until I meet the whole family. What you think of this woman? What do I do, I have so much on my plate already and now I have to deal with this woman.