If you believe your friend has lied, is it hard to accept the truth, that you're wrong?

@Spokeskitties75 good, than I am not alone on this.

@Spokeskitties75 @Karmalives I agree. It's a long sordid story, that doesn't make sense. It's hard to put it into words.

@Minime it's ok

@Karmalives Thanks. I'm just trying to make sense of something that probably can't be solved.

@Minime try me 🤔

@Karmalives I was accused of something that would be considered devious and shady, but I honestly didn't do it. It's not easy to prove I'm innocent, and I lost a friend over it. He's moved on, and I'm still here wanting to show I'm not lying. The situation has made me feel helpless, and angry too. He is stuck in his thinking and has a response for everything I show him. It's an impossible situation, making me doubt it will ever be solved. No matter how much I show him to disprove his theory, he still doesn't want to see it. I was just curious if he will ever be able to admit he was wrong, or see the hurt it's caused, or if it's easier to let me go.

@Minime sometimes things happen for a reason... WE are responsible for what we do and say NOT how others react... YOU know the truth that is what matters.. this friend is no longer needed.

@Karmalives I know this is true. It's hard to have someone I care about, think I would lie or deceive him like this. I feel stuck.
I really appreciate you taking the time to respond. Thank you.

@Minime you are only stuck if you CHOOSE To be.

@Karmalives That's a fact. Thanks for the reality check. ☺️

@Minime anytime, just cheer up and move on ok.. 😉

@Karmalives Yep! Thanks again..

@Minime your welcome

@Minime lol.. You should never feel stuck unless u cant get out of it.. The point here is what is holding this onion in place.. You! Know the truth. If he has no facts!!!! It didnt happen.. I dont see the problem

@Luvbuttz, you're right too. I am not stuck, I just want him to see me, and know I wouldn't do what he says I did. His "facts" are his perception of what happened, not what really did happen. It's not a web of deception, it's a few things, that are not even connected, except in his mind.
I did say to show me or it didn't happen, one time. I was angry and wanted to see what I'm being accused of. They're not words I live by.