I couldn't find an actual "group" to write this in, so I will write it here.

I have been talking to a guy and there is some interest, however he has 5 children. I don't currently have any and it took me a while to get to a point to accept a man that has 1. he has 5. This makes me a little nervous. He is about 5/2 years older than me and is divorced. We have only been talking a short while and he us to meet (where he lives) I really am stuck, a little afraid and don't know what to do. After a little hesitation on my end of him telling me he wanted to meet ( after 2 or 3 days of communicating via text and phone) he told me that he didn't want to" 'waist' his time"
I just need time to make sure that I'm not rushing into anything that I can't come of lightly.

SW-User

It depends what.kinda man he is. If it's only some interest then I wouldn't do it. If you are going to do it then be ready for 4 out 5 will hate you and try to break you up. He will take their side most likely, and you will have wasted A LOT of energy on them and left with disappointment. This is the most realistic scenario since he already said he doesn't want to waste his time...its not crucially important to him.